No sch today.. so slept till 2pm!! haha anyway.. today.. my uncle came to visit my grandma.. and trying to be a good granddaughter and niece, i joined their conversation. MY uncle and my dad really look so alike i might even mistake him for my dad. The only difference is that my dad is slight bigger in size..heezz.. well, as expected, today’s conversation was on my grandfather. About removing him from the cemetery again. My uncle said that there’s nothing to worry abt cos the govnt will make sure everything is done properly and i agreed. If they wanna remove the corpse (tat’s most properly left with nothing), then they should be totally responsible for makeing sure everything is done properly. Anyway, my dad and my uncle aint in good terms. That’s due to what happened in the past. Few years back, my grandma was injured and had to be hospitalised. The medical fee was expensive and we were all worried of who was to look after my grandma after she discharges. My dad and uncle started to quarrel over the responsibility and the fee. In actual fact, both my uncle and dad were willing to take the responsibility, however, my uncle thought that my dad was going to ‘throw’ into the old folk’s home and leave her there and thus went to tell my grandma that my dad was leaving her in to old folk home. In actual fact, my dad was applying for my grandma to go to some therapy home so that she has someone to take care of and to slowly recuperate and she mistook it as a old folk home. My dad was furious.. cos how can you say such a thing to your mother?! My uncle then insist that he will take care of my grandma. So my father cancelled the application. And becos the hospital was rushing us to take our grandma home, it was urgent that we had it all planned out. However, in the end, my uncle suddenly say that it is not fair for him to take all the responsibility and refused to take her. My dad was very furious. (i have never seen my dad throw temper before that.) He believed that if my uncle didnt wan to take care of her, he should have said that early cos my dad could then apply for a maid. The real victim, my grandma, being kicked around like a soccer ball. In the end, my dad managed to get a maid and brought my grandma home. From then on, my uncle and my dad were never in good terms. Actually, my grandma has to be responsible for what happened too. Cos, my mum said that my grandma had been talking bad about every one of us in front of the other. In other words, in front of my uncle, she said my dad didnt want her, or something like that, while in front of my dad, she said that my uncle didnt want her. Thus, my dad was also furious at my grandma. Anyway, what is more important is that the main problem lies in the lack of communication. I believe that both my dad and my uncle are willing to take responsibility. It is only becos my uncle believes that my dad is rich (actually, not bcos he has a large family to take care of.) and both of them had say things they didnt mean. Also, they have totally forgotten that my grandma, who was in need of attention, could have say the wrong things as well. In the end, who’s to blame? Everyone? or no one? i dun noe.. I hope they can reunite soon.. and stop putting money in such an important place. Money is the root of all evil. Thus, I shall blame ‘money’ for cosing so much trouble. HAiz….
