Is knowing that he loves you enough?
Recently, i have been posting this qns, "Is knowing that he loves you enough?" on msn. There are only two ans; yes and no. One of my friends said ‘yes’ then i asked the qns, "do you have to feel it?" she said yes. In that case, i replied, "isnt that not enough knowing that he loves you then?" =D
Well, in my opinion, i feel that it is NOT enough just to know. Because, knowing only comes after you have FELT it and feeling it once and assume that its always there doesnt work. The main point is that when you love someone, you have to show them constantly, let them feel it too. You may not have to say it, but you have to SHOW it. In actual fact, one who loves the other may not even realise that he or she actually already showing their affections to the other. For example, just by looking into another’s eyes directly (of cos with affections and not anger whatsoever) will show your feelings. To me, I strongly believe "eyes are the window to ur heart". It is very common that pple are betrayed by their eyes. Then again, this doesnt work if one look into the other’s eyes with love and then turn around and cheats on him or her.
Coming to the topic of cheating, i personally think when he loves you does not mean he wouldnt cheat on you. I have come across some guys who do love their girlfriends very much yet have cheated on them simply because they have the problem of "the need for attention". There are pple who simply need more attention from the opposite sex other than their partners. My friend asked me, "is cheating the only thing that can cause a breakup?" of cos not.. "what about flirting?" I was about to say yes when i thought to it myself, "is flirting equal to cheating? since flirting is also similar to cheating except there isnt sex involve." To me and may be to many of you pple out there, the ans is clear; flirting, like cheating is also a betrayal of the heart of another. Therefore, its as condemning as cheating. I can nv understand why a person can have the heart to hurt another’s heart especially if he or she loves the other.
In conclusion of my crappy essay here, I feel that when you love someone, you muz let him or feel it. He may KNOW you love him but he may not feel it. There’s a great difference between knowing and feeling. It is the difference between telling yourself he loves you and jus feeling that he loves you. (brain vs heart) In addition, before any of you decided to cheat on ur love, for goodness sake, PLEASE think of how it would feel if its done to you!!!!!!!!!!
